Custom Rule

Customs, carried from parents and old generations support some kind of identity in people.

Marriage use to be a battle camp when that identity become visible, having a quick effect in entire family.

Conflicts in a couple may be saying that it is time to change, family life is a continuous changing process.

Some people do not understand that, and decide to break relationships to begin another one, without be careful about the effects of that
decision.

Changing process could be hard, specially to ego.

People does not accept easily any responsibilities in their problems, but them attitudes unconsciously hold up conflict.

When couple problems appear, it is time to confront our self to our customs and to build a different way to release current situations.

It does not matter if you have learned “x” or “y” manners in a past if you and your family depends of your own decision to change your self, and adjusted it to present.